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Feet Confession – Her Best Friend, Barefoot“I’m with someone..

Feet Confession – Her Best Friend, Barefoot

“I’m with someone I love, but my eyes betray me when her best friend comes over. I hate myself for it.”

I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 2 yrs now, and we’re solid—happy, stable, all that. But I’ve been carrying around this weird guilt because I have this thing for her best friend’s feet. I know how that sounds. I don’t want to be into them. But she’s always barefoot when she’s over—always—and I’ve caught myself looking more than I should.

It’s not like I fantasize about her or want anything to happen between us. It’s just this reflex now, like my eyes go straight to her feet before anything else. And the worst part is, I’m so good at hiding it that no one would ever suspect. But it eats at me. It makes me feel like I’m betraying my girlfriend, even though I haven’t done anything technically wrong.

I’ve tried to stop, to avoid being around when her friend comes over, but it doesn’t always work. I hate that something so specific and quiet is making me feel this much guilt. I wish I could turn it off.

Justin – 29, in a relationship

Feet Confession: My Crush Let Me Rub Her Feet I’ve had a cru..

Feet Confession: My Crush Let Me Rub Her Feet

I’ve had a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. We’ve always gotten along, and one day during lunch, she mentioned how sore her feet were from walking around all day. Half-joking, I said, “I give amazing foot rubs, you know.”

To my surprise, she said, “Really? I might take you up on that.” Later that week, during a casual hangout with a few people, she actually asked me for that foot rub. We were sitting close on the couch, and she rested her feet on my lap.

It took everything in me to stay calm, but inside, I was going crazy. Her feet were so soft, her toes freshly painted, and she just kept chatting casually like it was nothing. I still think about it sometimes… I don’t know if she had any idea what that moment meant to me.

— Daniel, 29, Austin

Feet Confession: My Ex Surprised Me One Night I dated someon..

Feet Confession: My Ex Surprised Me One Night

I dated someone a while back who never knew I had a thing for feet. I was always scared to tell her, thinking she might find it weird. But one night, we were just laying around and she randomly asked if I had any "secret kinks." I froze for a second, then finally said, “I’m really into feet.”

To my surprise, she just smiled and said, “Why didn’t you tell me earlier?” She wiggled her toes in my lap and told me to massage them. I did… and it turned into one of the hottest nights we ever had.

We’re not together anymore, but I still think about that moment and how good it felt to be accepted for something I always kept to myself.

— Alex, 30, Chicago

Feet Confession: Her Flip-Flops Drove Me Crazy There’s this ..

Feet Confession: Her Flip-Flops Drove Me Crazy

There’s this girl in my friend group who always wears flip-flops, no matter the season. I don’t know what it is, but the way her toes peek out, her arches flexing when she walks—it drives me crazy.

We hang out in a chill group, and no one really notices, but whenever she props her feet up or lets her sandals dangle, I can’t help but sneak a glance. I’ve never told anyone about my foot fetish, especially not her.

The worst part? She’s super friendly and affectionate, always giving hugs, leaning close, and it just makes the whole thing harder to ignore. Sometimes I wonder if she even realizes the kind of effect she has on me without trying.

— Miguel, 27, Los Angeles

Feet Confession: My Friend’s Girlfriend Gave Me a Look I was..

Feet Confession: My Friend’s Girlfriend Gave Me a Look

I was hanging out at a small get-together, just a few friends at someone’s apartment. One of the girls there was lounging barefoot on the couch, her legs stretched out. She had this effortless confidence about her—perfectly painted toes, soft soles, and she kept flexing them while scrolling through her phone.

I wasn’t trying to be obvious, but I looked a few times too long. At one point, she looked up, caught me, and smiled—like she knew. She didn’t say anything, but after that, she kept moving her feet a little more, resting them closer to where I was sitting.

Maybe it was nothing, or maybe she enjoyed the attention. Either way, it made me wonder how many girls actually notice when a guy is into their feet—but just choose to play along silently.

— Leo, 31, Nevada

Feet Confession: I Took a Risk with My Ex My ex and I dated ..

Feet Confession: I Took a Risk with My Ex

My ex and I dated for about a year, and I never really told her about my foot fetish. I’d always offer to give her foot rubs after a long day, and sometimes she’d playfully put her feet in my lap, but I never took it further.

One night we were lying in bed, and she asked what kind of things turned me on that I never told her about. I hesitated but finally said, “I really like your feet.” She was quiet for a second, then said, “Like, in a sexy way?”

I nodded, and to my surprise, she just smiled and slid her foot up my leg under the blanket. She didn’t say much else, but after that night, she’d randomly tease me—putting her feet on me during movies or letting me massage them longer than usual.

We didn’t last, but I’ll never forget how she handled it. No judgment, just curiosity—and a little fun.

— Adam, 29, Toronto

Feet Confession: I Couldn’t Stop Looking at Her Sandals Ther..

Feet Confession: I Couldn’t Stop Looking at Her Sandals

There’s a girl I work with who always wears these open-toe sandals when the weather's warm. Perfectly painted toes, cute anklet, the whole thing. I’d catch myself glancing down every time we’d talk, just quick looks—but one day she totally caught me.

We were chatting in the break room and she suddenly smirked and said, “Are my shoes really that interesting?” I froze. I didn’t know what to say, so I just laughed it off and changed the subject.

Now every time we talk, she slips off her sandals just a little, dangling them while she chats with me. I don’t know if she’s teasing or just comfortable, but it’s driving me crazy. I’ve never told anyone about my thing for feet, and I don’t plan to—but she’s making it really hard to keep it to myself.

— Marcus, 30, New Jersey

Feet Confession: My Friend’s Girlfriend Caught Me Staring I’..

Feet Confession: My Friend’s Girlfriend Caught Me Staring

I’ve always had a thing for feet, but I usually keep it under control, especially around friends. One weekend, I was hanging out at a friend’s place when his girlfriend walked in barefoot, freshly pedicured, with bright red polish. She sat on the couch, stretching her legs across the coffee table, and I couldn’t stop glancing.

I thought I was being subtle, but at one point, I looked up and saw her staring right at me. She raised an eyebrow and smirked, wiggling her toes slightly like she knew exactly what I was looking at. I felt my face heat up, and I immediately looked away.

Later that night, when my friend stepped outside to take a call, she leaned over and whispered, “You like feet, don’t you?” I froze. I wasn’t sure if she was messing with me or genuinely curious, but before I could answer, she just laughed and stretched her feet out again, teasing me without saying another word.

Since then, every time I see her, she seems to go out of her way to show off her feet—dangling her sandals, walking around barefoot, even asking my opinion on nail polish colors. I don’t know if she’s just having fun with it or if she actually enjoys the attention, but it’s been driving me crazy.

— David, 27, Florida

Feet Confession: My Boss Walked in on Me at Work I work in a..

Feet Confession: My Boss Walked in on Me at Work

I work in an office where dress shoes and heels are the norm, and let’s just say, I notice every time a woman kicks off her shoes under the desk. One of my coworkers, who happens to be my boss, always wears open-toed heels, and I’ve definitely taken a few quick glances when she slips them off.

One evening, I stayed late to finish a project. I walked past her desk and saw her heels left underneath. I don’t know what came over me, but I reached down and touched the inside, feeling how warm they still were. Before I could even move, I heard a voice behind me:

“Do you like them that much?”

I jumped and turned around. It was her. She had come back to grab something from her desk and caught me red-handed. My mind went blank—I had no excuse. She just smirked, walked over, and slipped her feet back into them, tilting her head like she was reading my mind.

“You know,” she said, “if you needed a break, all you had to do was ask.” Then she just walked away.

She hasn’t mentioned it since, but every time we’re alone in the office, she seems to stretch her legs out more, dangle her shoes longer, and I swear she makes eye contact when she does it. I don’t know if she’s teasing me on purpose… or if she’s waiting for me to say something.

— Ethan, 31, Texas

Feet Confession: My Wife Caught Me Smelling Her Shoes I’ve b..

Feet Confession: My Wife Caught Me Smelling Her Shoes

I’ve been married for five years, and my wife has always had the most beautiful feet. I never told her outright about my foot fetish, but I’ve always enjoyed little things—offering to give her foot rubs, buying her cute sandals, sneaking glances when she’s barefoot around the house.

One afternoon, I was home alone and saw her heels by the door, the ones she had just worn all day at work. I picked them up without even thinking, feeling the warmth inside, and before I knew it, I brought them up to my nose. The scent, the thought of her wearing them all day—it turned me on more than I expected.

I was so lost in the moment that I didn’t hear the front door open. She had forgotten her keys and came back inside, catching me right in the act. I froze, completely embarrassed. She just stared at me, clearly confused, and asked, “Are you seriously sniffing my shoes?”

I stammered, trying to come up with an excuse, but there was no getting out of it. I finally admitted that I had a thing for feet and that it wasn’t just about looking at them—I was attracted to everything about them. She didn’t say much at first, just laughed and shook her head. Later that night, she teased me about it, wiggling her toes in my face and saying, “So… you like these that much?”

She hasn’t brought it up since, but she also doesn’t seem weirded out by it. Maybe this is my chance to tell her everything—but I don’t know if I should.

— Mike, 34, Chicago

Feet Confession: My Co-Worker Slipped Off Her Heels, and I C..

Feet Confession: My Co-Worker Slipped Off Her Heels, and I Couldn’t Focus

I work in an office, and I’ve always had a thing for women in heels. There’s just something about the way they slip them off under their desks that drives me crazy. My co-worker, Emily, sits across from me, and she always wears pumps to work. I never thought much of it until one afternoon when she casually slipped one off and started dangling it while we were in a meetiing.

I tried to focus on my screen, but my eyes kept drifting to her foot. The way her toes flexed, the soft arch of her sole—it was mesmerizing. At one point, she caught me looking. She smirked but didn’t say anything. Instead, she slowly slid her foot back into the shoe and crossed her legs, like she was teasing me on purpose.

Since then, I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t know if she noticed something or if I’m just overthinking it, but now, every time she slips off her shoes, I feel like she knows exactly what she’s doing.

— Daniel, 29, Miami

Feet Confession: My Wife Caught Me Smelling Her Shoes I’ve b..

Feet Confession: My Wife Caught Me Smelling Her Shoes

I’ve been married to my wife for five years, and she still doesn’t know the full extent of my foot fetish. She knows I like rubbing and kissing her feet, but I never told her that I also love the smell of her shoes. I don’t know why, but something about her scent—especially after a long day—drives me crazy.

One night, she came home from work and kicked off her flats like she always does. She went to shower, and I picked up one of her shoes, just out of habit. Right as I was about to take a deep breath, I heard her voice behind me: "Are you seriously smelling my shoe?" I almost dropped it.

I had no excuse, so I just admitted it. She stared at me for a second, then burst out laughing. "Wow, I knew you liked my feet, but this is a whole new level!" She didn’t seem disgusted—just surprised. She joked about selling her worn shoes online, and I played along, but I could tell she was trying to process it.

Since then, she’s been playful about it. Sometimes, she’ll come home, dangle a shoe in front of me, and say, "Had a long day. I bet you’d love a sniff, huh?" I can’t tell if she fully gets it, but at least she didn’t freak out. Maybe one day, I’ll tell her how much I really love it.

— Brian, 32, Chicago

Feet Confession: My Best Friend Caught Me Checking Out Her F..

Feet Confession: My Best Friend Caught Me Checking Out Her Feet

I’ve been best friends with Sarah since college, and I’ve always had a thing for her feet. She has the softest soles, perfectly shaped toes, and she’s always barefoot when we hang out at her place. I never made a move or said anything because I didn’t want to ruin our friendship.

A few weeks ago, we were chilling on her couch, watching Netflix, and she propped her feet up right next to me. I tried not to stare, but I guess I wasn’t as subtle as I thought. She suddenly smirked and said, "You keep looking at my feet. Do you have a thing for them or something?" I completely froze. I tried to laugh it off, saying I was just zoned out, but she wasn’t buying it.

She didn’t seem creeped out, though—just curious. She wiggled her toes in front of me and said, "So, what is it about feet that guys like?" I didn’t know how to answer without embarrassing myself, so I just shrugged. Since then, she’s been teasing me more, casually putting her feet on my lap or making little comments about them. I don’t know if she’s messing with me or if she actually wants me to admit it.

— Marco, 26, Los Angeles

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Feet Confession: She Surprised Me in the Best Way I was alwa..

Feet Confession: She Surprised Me in the Best Way

I was always nervous about telling my girlfriend about my foot fetish. We had been together for over a year, and I didn’t want her to think I was weird. So, I kept it to myself—until one night, she found out on her own.

She was using my laptop to look something up, and I guess I forgot to close a tab. It was a website featuring foot models, and when I realized she saw it, my heart dropped. I expected her to be disgusted, but instead, she just smirked and said, “You could’ve just asked me to send you foot pics, you know.”

I was speechless. She didn’t just accept it—she actually found it cute. That same night, she put her feet in my lap and asked, “So… what do you like most about them?” It was the best reaction I could’ve hoped for. Since then, she’s been playful about it, sending me pictures of her feet and even letting me choose her nail polish. It made me realize that sometimes, the fear of being judged is worse than the reality.

— Jake, 30, Florida

Feet Confession: My Ex Used It Against Me I told my ex about..

Feet Confession: My Ex Used It Against Me

I told my ex about my foot fetish early on in our relationship. I figured honesty was the best policy, and at first, she seemed cool with it. She even let me give her foot massages and would send me pictures of her feet when we were apart. I thought I was lucky—until things started going south in our relationship.

During arguments, she started throwing my fetish in my face, calling it “weird” and “gross.” One time, in front of her friends, she even made a joke about how I was obsessed with feet. It was humiliating. After we broke up, I heard from mutual friends that she exaggerated things and made it seem like I was some kind of freak. It messed with my confidence, and for a long time, I felt ashamed of what I liked.

Now, I’m in a new relationship, and I haven’t brought it up yet. I don’t want to go through that again, but at the same time, I don’t want to hide who I am. I just hope that when I do open up, my new girlfriend will see it as just another part of me, not something to use against me.

— Kevin, 26, Texas

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Caught Me Staring I never tho..

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Caught Me Staring

I never thought my thing for feet was a big deal. It was just something I enjoyed—nothing I felt the need to announce. But one night, my girlfriend and I were at the beach, and she caught me staring a little too long at a woman’s perfectly pedicured feet. She didn’t say anything at first, but I could tell by the way she looked at me that she noticed.

Later that night, she jokingly asked me if I had a thing for feet. I laughed it off, but she kept pressing, and eventually, I admitted it. I told her it wasn’t a huge deal, just something I found attractive. She didn’t seem mad, but she definitely looked surprised. Since then, she’s been teasing me about it—wiggling her toes near me, jokingly putting her feet in my lap, but she’s never outright asked if I want her to be involved in it. I don’t know if she’s just playing around or if she’d be open to indulging me, and I have no idea how to bring it up without making it weird.

— Matt, 31, California

Feet Confession: She Thinks It’s Cute I was dreading the mom..

Feet Confession: She Thinks It’s Cute

I was dreading the moment my girlfriend found out about my foot fetish, but it turned out way better than I expected. We were watching a movie, and she had her feet in my lap. Absentmindedly, I started rubbing them, and she playfully teased me, asking if I had a thing for feet. I laughed it off, but she pressed on, saying she had noticed how often I paid attention to her feet.

At that point, I just admitted it. I told her I’d always been into feet, but I never brought it up because I didn’t want her to think it was weird. To my surprise, she didn’t seem bothered at all. She actually said it was kind of cute that I had a specific thing I liked.

Since then, she’s been more playful about it—sometimes wiggling her toes in front of me just to get a reaction. I feel lucky that she’s open-minded about it. It’s made me feel more comfortable, and honestly, I think she enjoys teasing me about it now.

— Alex, 25, Florida

Feet Confession: She Noticed My Obsession I always thought I..

Feet Confession: She Noticed My Obsession

I always thought I was being subtle about my thing for feet, but apparently not. My girlfriend picked up on it before I even had a chance to tell her. She noticed how I’d always give her foot rubs, how I’d glance down when she was barefoot, and even how I’d playfully touch her feet when we were cuddling. One day, she straight-up asked me, "Do you have a foot fetish?"

I froze. I didn’t know if I should deny it or just own up to it. I went with the truth. I told her that, yeah, I did, and I always found her feet incredibly sexy. She laughed at first and said, "I knew it!" but then asked why I never told her. I explained that I wasn’t sure how she’d react and didn’t want her to think I was weird.

She actually took it really well. She even asked if there was something I wanted her to do with her feet, which totally caught me off guard. I don’t know where this will go, but I feel relieved that she knows now.

— Matt, 27, Texas

Feet Confession: She Caught Me Looking I never thought my fo..

Feet Confession: She Caught Me Looking

I never thought my foot fetish would be a big deal until my girlfriend caught me looking at pictures online. I’ve always had a thing for feet, but I kept it to myself. It wasn’t something I wanted to bring up because I wasn’t sure how she’d take it. But one evening, as I was scrolling through my phone, she walked up behind me and saw what I was looking at—pictures of women’s feet.

She didn’t say anything at first, but I could feel the shift in her mood. Later that night, she casually brought it up, asking if that was something I was into. I hesitated but eventually admitted that, yeah, I liked feet. Her reaction wasn’t bad, but I could tell she didn’t know how to process it. She asked why I never told her before and if it meant I wasn’t attracted to her in the same way.

I assured her that it wasn’t about that at all. I love her, and my attraction to her includes every part of her. It’s been a little awkward since then, but I’m hoping we can talk more about it and maybe even have some fun with it.

— Ryan, 30, Chicago

Feet Confession: My Girl Thinks It’s Strange, But She TriesI..

Feet Confession: My Girl Thinks It’s Strange, But She Tries

I told my girl about my foot fetish early on in our relationship. At first, she thought I was joking, but when she realized I was serious, she was kind of surprised. She wasn’t grossed out or anything, but she definitely didn’t understand why I liked feet so much.

For the first few years, she never really indulged me. She would let me rub her feet sometimes, but I could tell she wasn’t really into it. But then, out of nowhere, she started making small efforts—wearing cute ankle bracelets, painting her toes bright colors, and even propping her feet up on my lap while we were watching TV. One night, she asked, “So, what exactly do you like about feet?” That’s when I knew she was at least trying to understand.

Now, she still teases me about it, but in a playful way. She’ll jokingly wiggle her toes in my face or pretend to be offended when I don’t compliment her new nail polish. She doesn’t fully get it, but she loves me enough to make an effort, and honestly, that means more to me than anything.

— James, 33, California

Feet Confession: My Friend Noticed Me StaringI’ve always bee..

Feet Confession: My Friend Noticed Me Staring

I’ve always been careful about hiding my foot fetish, but apparently, I wasn’t careful enough. A close friend of mine, Natalie, has always been around—she’s fun, confident, and always barefoot when she’s at home. I never meant to make it obvious, but whenever we’d all be hanging out, I’d catch myself glancing at her feet.

A few weeks ago, we were all watching something, and Natalie was sitting across from me, dangling her foot off the edge of the couch. I was zoned out, staring without realizing it, when she suddenly smirked and said, “You like my feet or something?” My heart dropped. My other friends laughed it off, thinking she was just messing with me, but she kept eye contact for a little too long. Later that night, when we were alone grabbing snacks, she leaned in and whispered, “Don’t worry, I think it’s cute.”

Since then, things have been different—but not in a bad way. She randomly brings up pedicures around me, stretches her legs out when I’m nearby, and once even jokingly asked if I wanted to massage her feet after a long day. I have no idea if she’s just teasing or actually into it, but it’s been driving me crazy.

— Dylan, 25, Texas

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Caught Me Looking at Feet Pic..

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Caught Me Looking at Feet Pics

I never thought I’d get caught, but I guess I wasn’t as discreet as I thought. I’ve had a thing for feet for years, but I always kept it to myself. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years, and I never felt the need to bring it up. I figured as long as I wasn’t acting on it in any weird way, it wasn’t really an issue.

One night, I was scrolling through my cell in bed while she was in the bathroom. I wasn’t even thinking—I had Instagram open, checking out a model I follow who posts a lot of foot content. Just as I was about to close the app, she walked in and caught a glimpse of my screen. She didn’t say anything right away, but the next morning, she asked, “So, is there something you want to tell me?” I could tell she wasn’t mad, just confused. I admitted that I find feet attractive, but it’s not like I was hiding some huge secret.

She’s been teasing me about it ever since. Sometimes she’ll put her feet in my lap and say, “You like this, huh?” I still don’t know if she actually finds it funny or if she’s a little weirded out, but at least she didn’t freak out.

— Ryan, 27, Chicago

Feet Confession: My Crush Sent Me a Picture Without Realizin..

Feet Confession: My Crush Sent Me a Picture Without Realizing

I’ve had a crush on this girl from my gym for months. We talk here and there, and I’ve been trying to find the right time to ask her out. One day, we were texting about random stuff, and she mentioned she just got a pedicure. Jokingly, I said, “Let’s see,” and she actually sent me a picture of her feet without hesitation.

She had no idea what that meant to me. I played it cool and just said, “Looks nice,” but my heart was racing. Since then, I’ve noticed she wears open-toe shoes around me more often, and sometimes she casually talks about how much she loves getting foot massages. I don’t know if I’m reading too much into it, but I feel like there’s a chance she wouldn’t mind if I told her about my thing for feet.

I don’t want to make things weird, but part of me wants to see if she’s actually into it or just being friendly. Either way, that one picture is burned into my mind forever.

— Matt, 28, California

Feet Confession: My Wife Thinks It’s Weird, But She Plays Al..

Feet Confession: My Wife Thinks It’s Weird, But She Plays Along

I told my wife about my foot fetish early in our relationship, and she laughed, thinking I was joking. When she realized I was serious, she was a little confused but not totally against it. She just didn’t understand why feet were such a big deal to me.

Over the years, she’s indulged me here and there, letting me rub her feet after a long day or even painting her toes a certain color because she knew I liked it. But she still doesn’t fully get it. “I don’t see what’s so special about feet,” she’ll say, but then she’ll tease me by putting them in my lap or walking around barefoot on purpose.

I wish she was as into it as I am, but I’m also grateful that she doesn’t judge me for it. She might not understand, but she makes an effort, and that’s what matters most.

— Chris, 34, Denver

Feet Confession: My Roommate Walked In at the Worst TimeI li..

Feet Confession: My Roommate Walked In at the Worst Time

I live with two roommates, and we all get along great. We respect each other’s space, but sometimes we forget to knock. One night, I was in my room scrolling through some foot content on my phone, completely lost in the moment. Just as I was about to close the app, my roommate barged in without warning.

She stopped mid-sentence, glanced at my phone, and smirked. “Wow, didn’t peg you as a foot guy,” she said, crossing her arms. I was mortified. I tried to laugh it off and say it was just a random page, but she wasn’t buying it. “No judgment,” she said before walking out, but now I feel weird whenever she’s around.

Ever since then, she’s made little comments—like jokingly wiggling her toes when she’s barefoot or saying, “Bet you’d love a foot massage right now” when we’re all hanging out. I can’t tell if she’s teasing or if she’s actually cool with it, but I’d rather not make things awkward by bringing it up again.

— Ethan, 25, Texas

Feet Confession: My Co-Worker Caught Me Checking Her OutI wo..

Feet Confession: My Co-Worker Caught Me Checking Her Out

I work in an office, and there’s this girl I’ve had a crush on for months. She’s gorgeous, but what always gets me is her choice of footwear—she’s always wearing heels or sandals, and it drives me crazy. I try not to stare, but sometimes it’s impossible not to notice.

A few weeks ago, we were both at the printer, and I guess I was looking a little too long because she suddenly said, “You like my shoes or my feet?” I panicked and mumbled something about her having nice shoes, but she just raised an eyebrow and smirked. Ever since then, she’s been playfully teasing me—dangling her heels, wiggling her toes when we’re sitting next to each other, or randomly bringing up pedicures in conversation.

I don’t know if she’s messing with me or if she actually enjoys the attention, but part of me wants to find out. I just don’t want to make things awkward at work if I say the wrong thing.

— Tyler, 26, New York

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Thinks It’s Strange, But She’..

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Thinks It’s Strange, But She’s Willing to Try

I’ve had a foot fetish for as long as I can remember, but I never really told anyone about it—until I got into a serious relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and I finally decided to open up about it. I was nervous, but I figured if we were going to be together long-term, I should be honest.

When I told her, she didn’t freak out, but she definitely had a lot of questions. She asked if I only liked her because of her feet, if I looked at other girls online, and if this was something I "needed" in a relationship. I explained that it was just something I enjoyed and that it didn’t change how I felt about her.

Since then, she’s been making an effort—wearing cute sandals, putting lotion on her feet before bed, even letting me rub them while we watch TV. She still jokes about it sometimes, but at least she’s open-minded. I know she’s not totally into it, but the fact that she’s trying means a lot to me.

— Ryan, 29, Seattle

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Thinks It’s Weird, But She Tr..

Feet Confession: My Girlfriend Thinks It’s Weird, But She Tries

When my girlfriend and I started dating, I never thought I’d have to explain my foot fetish. I figured it wasn’t a big deal, and I’d just enjoy whatever I could in secret. But the more comfortable we got, the harder it became to ignore. I love everything about her, but I kept wishing she’d let me worship her feet the way I’ve always fantasized about.

One night, after a few drinks, she playfully asked if I had any “weird” kinks. I hesitated but figured I might as well be honest. When I told her, she looked surprised and asked, “Like… seriously?” She wasn’t disgusted or anything, but she definitely didn’t get it. For a while, nothing changed, but I could tell she was thinking about it.

A few weeks later, she put her feet in my lap while we were watching a movie and jokingly said, “So… do you like these or what?” It was awkward, but it meant a lot to me. She still doesn’t fully understand my thing for feet, but she tries in small ways. And honestly, that’s enough for me.

— Daniel, 30, Texas

Feet Confession: My Crush Noticed Me Staring at Her FeetI’ve..

Feet Confession: My Crush Noticed Me Staring at Her Feet

I’ve had a crush on this girl at work for months. We work in different departments, but we always run into each other in the breakroom. She’s beautiful, and on top of that, she always wears sandals or heels, which I can’t help but notice. I try to be subtle, but I guess I wasn’t careful enough.

One day, we were in a meetting together, and she was sitting across from me, casually dangling her heel off her foot. I must have been staring too long because she suddenly smirked and said, “You really like my shoes, huh?” The whole room went silent, and I could feel my face burning. I laughed it off and said they looked nice, but she definitely caught on. Later that day, she walked by my desk, wiggled her toes in her sandals, and said, “Hope you liked the show.” I had no idea if she was teasing me or flirting, but it’s been on my mind ever since.

Now, every time we see each other, she makes little comments about her shoes or how tired her feet are after work. I don’t know if she’s messing with me or if she actually enjoys the attention, but it’s driving me crazy. Should I take the hint and compliment her, or would that just make things even more awkward?

— Eric, 26, Los Angeles