Good morning guys, it was last Tuesday, I had just taken "the neighbor" pics and the light was so beautiful in the room, I decided to take five minutes and edge with you ☺️🍆 Over the past few weeks, I've had to come to terms with what it means to be 56, and how dysfunction is a word you shouldn't be afraid to use and ask your doctor about. After all this coming and going, I suspect that 75% of what I've been going through (mostly the ejaculation issues) is psychological in nature. I've discovered that I was afraid of disappointing YOU. So I'm facing that fear by sharing it with you (sorry if it's too much information) in the hopes that it will be useful to some of you and to me. Oh, and if anything, it's not the end of the world, like in this video, you can enjoy your body in many ways when or while some other part is "under repair" 😜 Have a great Friday! 😘❤️
Good morning guys, looking through my stuff I found this set of pics I'm not sure I shared back in the day. It was October 1st (my 54th birthday) 2021, and we took the afternoon off to go to a nearby Love Motel and take some pictures and enjoy the private pool...
...only to find out that the pool's heating system was broken and made you feel like an egg in boiling water, and some other amenities didn't work as well. But we took some pictures anyway and left the place and went to a pastry shop and had a nice piece of cake and a coffee. When life gives you hot lemons, make hot lemonade. Drama is useless ☺️
Last night I was using the stairs and bumped into this new neighbor, he invited me in, OMG it was amazing... 🤪 Good morning guys, I'm not sure why I love the neighbor series so much, I think it might have something to do with the fact that I used to have a very cute bear as a neighbor on our same floor when I was (can't say the word here, but a long time ago) and still lived with my parents. He had a dark beard, strong legs, a belly, and a tendency to walk around in denim daddy hoochie shorts, which fueled my imagination every time I ran into him anywhere in the building. I think he must have been in his thirties, but I don't think I would have cared how old he was. I also think he was gay and knew about me, because I remember him looking at me with a tender grin. Oh, and he also had great taste in music. He used to trade records with my dad, mostly Pink Floyd and symphonic rock as it was called back then. Must have been around 1976 to 1981. Have a lovely Wednesday 😘 ❤️
Hey guys, I hope your week is off to a good start. Here is the first of a two part gallery featuring one of the outfits Ricardo from Actitud Sabroso designed for me. It was made for a live showcase I did on the roof of a hotel in Puerto Vallarta in November 2022. You can watch some videos from that night on my YouTube channel. Have a nice Tuesday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, hope you had a great weekend ☺️ I took a moment to bring back one of my favorite gadgets. This little red devil never fails to deliver! 😈🤪 Recovery from my last neuropathy is going well, but I still struggle to shoot, so the help of these little trinkets is always welcome, little by little the strength is coming back 💦😜 Exciting week ahead, buckle up, have a great Monday ☺️😘❤️
Good morning guys, come and have a seat, let's have breakfast 😜🍆 I made this and another video last year in August and totally forgot to share it with you 😅 But there was so much going on back then... I was about to release my new album, I needed the break... That reminds me, I managed to get the books back to Amazon! 🎉🎉 I'm aware that it's only a small victory and they might ban them again soon, but it feels good to be back. I'm also working on a revision of the "All Systems Go" book, revising all the text, reworking some of the pictures and probably adding a few pages. Next will be the last and unpublished one... Have a nice Saturday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, here is the video I promised the other day, let's start the day with a smile on our faces ☺️😉🍆. What a week it's been. I have a hectic day today and come to think of it, tomorrow as well. But if all goes well, I'll have something to announce next week. Keep your fingers crossed ☺️ Have a nice Friday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, a chair, the golden hour, a beach nearby... sounds like the perfect #throwbackthursday to me ☺️ Going through my stuff, I realized that I had shared a 15 second version of this video on a story, but not the whole thing. It was August 2023 and we were on a 10 day vacation trip to Vallarta, staying with a friend. I had a moment alone and thought it would be fun to play with the chair 😅. There are 2 more videos of this chair, I'll share them with you soon. Have a nice Thursday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, continuing with the other days theme, there are other times when you suddenly have the house to yourself and you can even take pictures with the bedroom door open after the morning shower 😜. That was yesterday, and I even made a short video that I'll post soon ☺️ Hope your week is going well, mine is crazy busy but productive so I'm hopeful. Have a wonderful Wednesday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys! Let's get soaked from head to toe and relax in the jacuzzi for a moment (at least in our minds) 💦🐼 ☺️ All the stuff I've been working on is finally starting to materialize and I'm close to the finish line, I'll be able to tell you a little bit more soon 😜 Happy Tuesday 😘❤️
Good morning guys, ready to start the week with a bird's eye view of a lazy but playful bear? 😜🎥🐼 I had some free time yesterday at noon, so I took a shower and shot this video for you, this time without interruptions 😅. A nice edging session to help you start the week off with a smile. Have a beautiful Monday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys! Sometimes you can't have a single moment, even after the shower! 😅 As I've already hinted, things have been pretty hectic at home the last few months, which has made it impossible for me to do a live broadcast, for example, for quite some time. Here's video proof of that. Last Wednesday I took a break for a nice shower and felt like making a video for you guys, so I started recording and after no more than a minute someone outside the room threw something on the floor and I had to stop just in case... and I'm thankful that I did... 🤣. But still, I think some of you will enjoy this blooper ☺️ have a nice Sunday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys! The weekend is here, let's spice things up 🤪 🌶️ These are the two other pictures @bigbearmx edited for you last Thursday so I could have some time to work on all the things I'm preparing. We, or at least I, don't quite fit the parameters of the (real) leather community (and I'm super respectful of them), but we love the look and feel of leather clothing. Have a great weekend, go out, have fun! ❤️😘❤️
Good morning everyone! It's Friday and someone is ready to have some fun haha 😆🤪 Yesterday I was pretty busy in the studio so @bigbearmx offered to edit some pics for you this weekend. This is the first one, do you think he's trying to tell me something?😜😉 Have a very nice day 😘 ❤️
Good morning everyone! Let's go back in time and celebrate #throwbackthursday with this set of pictures we took at the same place we shot the music video for "Beautiful Nothing" 🎥💦🐼🐻 if you watch the video, this is the wall on the left side of the pool ☺️ Hope your week is going well, I recorded vocals for a new song yesterday and at the same time I'm doing new versions of some of my most streamed songs for the Pridefest show next June in Milwaukee. We're on a tight schedule, but the finish line is super exciting ☺️ Have a great Thursday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, following the #wetwednesday tradition, here's a moment from the other day when we took a quick break and rented a room with a jacuzzi for a little R & R 💦 ☺️ One special thing about Guadalajara that impressed me when I moved to Mexico is the amount of love motels there are. It's something that's not very common in Spain, the social dynamics are different. But it's been a fun "discovery safari" to visit some of them and often take pictures and videos for you. This one was nice, but not very photogenic. It looked a lot like another one we visited last year, but I have another one on the list that I hope we'll visit soon... Have a great day 😘❤️
Good morning guys! With the Osito Lycra Speedo leaving the store on my website next Sunday, I thought it was time to share more pics from the photo shoot we did to promote it ☺️ The funny thing is that I barely promoted it or shared any of these pics elsewhere because we sold out the first edition in 2 days and since it's only one guy sewing them, I didn't want him to hate me 😅. Now there are about 4 or 5 left, but no matter what, it will be sold out by Sunday. It amazes me how important it is to have better clothing options for big guys. I'll be looking for ways to offer something new soon. Have a great Tuesday! 😘❤️
Good morning guys, a new month is starting and what better way to start than with breakfast in bed? 😜🍆 This is the last set of pics we managed to take at TBRU 😅 I know I said we planned a lot more, but as it's been happening for a while, every time I talk about something in advance, it ends up not happening haha so, I'll learn to keep my mouth shut. Have a wonderful Monday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, breakfast is served on the stairs today 🤪💦🍆 Here's the last part of this new incursion into the "neighbor" series, hope you enjoyed it. Actually this video was a bit of an accomplishment for me as I was unable to get off for the last month due to some medication I took in February. It took me almost a month to get my groove back, but 2 days ago it happened and here it is, let's have fun! 😜 Have a wonderful Sunday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, let's go back to the stairs, maybe we can see the neighbor... 😜 This is the second and last set of pics from the stairs, there's a video I'll share tomorrow or Monday because we shouldn't eat (or lick) meat today LOL 🤣. I recorded another demo yesterday and I'm happy because it's an uptempo Spanish song, a request I've been getting for a while. But it took me a bit to write the right melody and lyrics. I think it's going to get a lot of love ☺️ Today I'm going to finish this arrangement and then go back to another song that's giving me a lyric headache. I'll get there. Have a beautiful Saturday 😘❤️
Good morning guys, 14 years ago I did a photo shoot for a friend that went viral among the bears, and when I was thinking about what pictures I could do until we could do our next official photo shoot, I thought it would be fun to wink at some of the most popular ones. I didn't go all the way to copy them, it's just a mention of one of the poses, the most popular one, that I've found in many other pictures over the years from people trying to emulate it.
Unfortunately, I can't share my friend's set of pictures here because I would need a signed release and my friend is very shy these days 😅.
And now some exciting news: Today I can finally reveal that I've been invited to perform at the Skyline MainStage of Pridefest in Milwaukee (USA) on June 8th (Saturday). I will be doing a one hour show, singing a selection of my songs, some remixed for the occasion, and featuring some special guests. Feels like a once in a lifetime opportunity. Hope some of you can make it and share the moment with me.
Hey you, come back to bed! it's still early and we've got all day 😜 Good morning guys, these are a few more pics taken during TBRU. It was early in the morning and although breakfast was tempting, other things were more ☺️ Today is music day for me, although it's a festive week here and most likely everyone will start a long holiday weekend today, I'll be working on the new songs and enjoying the quiet. I have always loved writing songs at this time of year. I'd say that I wrote my first complete song (an instrumental) on a day like today back in 1989 or 1990. Have a nice Thursday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys, breakfast is ready 🤪🍆 This is the last set from our latest photoshoot, playing with color contrasts and close-ups. Since I couldn't do the one I had planned at TBRU, we'll be shooting two photoshoots we had planned earlier than expected. I'll keep you posted. Life keeps reminding me that it's never too late for anything, and that I shouldn't discuss plans in advance (because they won't happen). So I'll keep my mouth shut and hope for a collaborator to fall from the sky soon LOL 🤣😜 Have a nice Wednesday 😘 ❤️
Good morning guys! Here’s a little moment I wanted to share with you the other day but couldn’t because of the WiFi back at the hotel 😅 hope you enjoy it 🥳 We’re back home and although I didn’t do all that I had planned to do because of things I can’t control (for example the photo shoot), it was great to disconnect, see friends and enjoy the vibe at TBRU Now it’s time to set up in motion new exciting things to come. Have a great Tuesday 😘❤️
Good morning guys, we’re flying back home in two hours but first I wanted to share these pics from bed with you ☺️ TBRU 2024 is over and it’s been great to have these five days off and away from home. I’m ready to work hard and finish recording the new songs and start other exciting projects. Bring it on! 😜 Have a nice Monday ☺️😘❤️
Good morning guys, last day of TBRU and I don’t want to wake up 😅 after all, it’s only Sunday 😉 But I thought I’d invite you for a little breakfast while I decide. Enjoy! And have a wonderful day 😘❤️
Hey guys! Good morning, let’s take a shower together 🐼☺️🚿 TBRU is going great this year, great vibe, although I’m having to spend a little more time than expected in my room because of the humidity. The pain is a lot sometimes, so I rather have my legs and feet under a blanket and watch a movie or something while it goes away 😅 Still haven’t done the photo shoot for the same reason (we don’t want me with “pain” face haha) but I’m hopeful the sun will come up today and humidity will lower. Anyways, happy to be here, just to be able to disconnect is wonderful and there are a lot of cute bears whom to admire (even from a distance hehe) and friends and online friends to see and greet. Have a wonderful day 😘😘❤️
Good morning guys! It’s our second day at TBRU and I discovered the most intriguing thing: It’s very difficult to post from here. It seems the company that does my roaming here has this kind of pages blocked, and the hotel WiFi has also a similar problem when trying to upload anything. Been trying for two hours until I could upload these 😅 I took them last night. Took a video for you early in the morning but I’m afraid I’ll have to wait until I get home until I post it. So please excuse me if i take a little longer to post until next Tuesday, I’ll try my best 😅 TBRU it’s going great. Nice vibe, a few friends here and there and a lot of time to just relax, just what doctor ordered 😊 have a great Friday guys 😘😘❤️
Good morning guys, browsing through my vault I found these cool pics with a cigar from 2022 and thought they might make for an interesting #throwbackthursday ☺️
I have a complex relationship with tobacco. I spent the first 15 years of my life loathing it and then a teacher made me smoke a cigarrete in front of my class on a dare and a week later (I think it was 1981) I was hooked until 2010 when I quit completely (I was smoking 2 packs a day) and stayed that way until 2017. Then at a pool party I grabbed a cigarette from a friend and started smoking one or two a day. Helps me deal with anxiety. But the thing is, now I'm smoking maybe 4 cigarettes a day and my anxiety levels keep going up, so I'm ready to quit again and look for alternative ways to deal with it.
