sooooo I will be going to the Netherlands :) and I will be collabing with a European creator :) I have my virtual consult with one of the synkinesis specialists thursday morning and will be discussing the Neuro Rehabilitation program in more thorough detail/cost of program. I have reached out to a few Dutch creators but so far none have returned my messages... BUT I do have a creator friend who is UK based and she will either be in England or Scotland and we will be collabing together :) I will fly out to wherever she ends up at the time I am down in Europe. I can't tell you who it is though hehhehhehe.
I'm really just trying to make the most out of a shitty situation. I wish I didn't have to deal with the facial palsy residuals but as long as I have this positive perspective I can view this as the universe granting me more life experience. Traveling to Europe will be fucking amazing. It is just what I need right now. Very thankful this clinic is only a 20 minute drive from Amsterdam :) I posted the link below of the clinic that I will be attending for my synkinesis. It's pretty interesting stuff! So because of all this future traveling I will be doing I will be working like crazy again in order to accomplish my next set of goals. LEt's fuckin goooooo
https://crystal-touch.nl/about/neuro-proprioceptive-rehabilitation-method/
2023-05-24 01:30:08 +0000 UTC
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hey guys, please comment on this status if you know any female creators from the Netherlands! I will most likely be travelling to Rotterdam to seek out these specififc synkinesis specialists and it would be super beneficial to turn it into a work trip as well instead of just medical lol, thank you!
2023-05-22 18:38:02 +0000 UTC
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I basically wrote a 3 page paper on what I have been going through, I'm not going to post it all in here, because I think all of you are aware of the suffering I have been going through. What I will post though, is what I have learned from thi s situation with books, meditation, lectures, and experience.
Now, let me explain what I have learned on this wild journey. One of the key factors that has been identified as being predictive of a positive outcome after acquiring any facial disfigurement is 1. The number of positive and non-avoidant coping strategies and 2. The variety of them. I am currently reading a book called "Mans Search For Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl, the author of this book was a psychiatrist living through the realities of being a prisoner at a concentration camp in Auschwitz but still finding spiritual meaning to his life, even with the suffering he endured everyday. There is no religious aspect of this involved, it is simply how he held him self together with his own mindset. One of my favorite quotes from the book is “If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering. Suffering is an eradicable part of life, even as fate and death. Without suffering and death, human life cannot be complete.” The test then for all of us is how we respond to the suffering in our lives. And that right there has been something that I have struggled with deeply, by associating myself with my emotions and allowing myself to think they are intrinsically me. But suffering does hold purpose, if you allow it to. In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning. “To draw an analogy: a man's suffering is similar to the behavior of a gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering is great or little. Therefore the "size" of human suffering is absolutely relative.” My face does not define me, but how I respond to or how I view myself is ultimately what defines me and my character. It seems so cliche and easy to understand, but it isn't, it's hard to practice. I am not my mind, and I am most certainly not my suffering, these things are merely just tools in order to navigate through this reality. Who I really am, is love. I am deep rooted in love and that is my true being. Another quote from Frankl “For the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set into song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth - that Love is the ultimate and highest goal to which man can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through love and in love.” What Frankl is trying to get across with his book is identifying a purpose in life to feel positive about, and then immersively imagining that outcome. In this psychosocial paradigm of effectively treating how one with facial palsy views his life and his surroundings has a graded approach to goals "The What If Plans." 1. Work out what it is you want to do 2. Then working out how to achieve it 3. What is my absolute worst fear about doing this activity? These steps are goals that I will be taking in life in order to 1. Navigate my new reality with facial palsy by implementing different goals and how I can achieve them. 2. By remembering that the true test of our character is revealed in how we act, and you have the complete freedom to choose how to respond in any situation.
2023-05-17 21:29:30 +0000 UTC
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these cat ears are so stupid
2023-05-17 12:03:03 +0000 UTC
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so..... I think I will be traveling to the Netherlands to seek out help from this clinic that specializes in neuro rehabilitation, they are called the Crystal Touch Bells Palsy clinic and this seems exactly what I need. My synkinesis is getting worse, my affected side of my face is constantly tight due to the muscles always contracting and It's now becoming physical pain, not just mental. But atleast I can make a vacation out of this as I have never been to Europe!!! Visiting Amsterdam would be so fucking cool.
2023-05-16 00:08:51 +0000 UTC
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fuck me so good that my face looks disoriented
2023-05-05 10:01:56 +0000 UTC
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How’s it going down there?
2023-04-30 15:29:25 +0000 UTC
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My pussy is ridiculously fat
2023-04-26 06:03:00 +0000 UTC
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Just ignore how derpy my face looks and stare at my pussy/butthole combo
2023-04-21 15:53:46 +0000 UTC
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