Why I haven’t had sex in almost 3 years.. and counting… While for others the motivation to have sex can almost solely triggered by feeling horny. For people like me, it’s WAY more complex… Since working online, I find it fun to share layers of myself with those that are interested as I will always be a very layered person (with all its consequences). So for anyone that would like a peek of my mind, here goes: For others the motivation to have sex can almost solely triggered by feeling horny. For people like me, it’s WAY more complex and dozens of factors play a role in deciding to actually have sex. When I was younger (in my twenties) I had a lifestyle where I partied every weekend, was still working on my degree (so, many friends) and I guess I was still more open to the idea of intimacy and love. Life happened, hearts got broken, I switched careers and started working online. Working from is an introverts dream (or nightmare, depending how you look at it). There was no reason for me anymore to be surrounded by people so that was something I did less and less. Working online also came with more money than I was making working my more conventional job. That meant.. I could take in more and more and more abandoned dogs. Until 3 years later I found myself with 13 dogs, feeding strays in the streets on a daily and regularly working on urgent cases surrounding dogs. I found my purpose but I also started finding myself isolated from the rest of the world. Which is something, as an introvert, I don’t seem to have a lot of trouble with. When you’re always covered in both dog hair and dog drama, for me, sex definitely became the last thing on my mind. Not sex in general… Because I have to say I don’t suck at the masturbation game.. But going out, making connections with others and having sex with them, felt like something I didn’t feel working for anymore. My past relationship and the way I loved and lost have brought me to a place where intimacy is something I no longer crave. To the contrary. The only occasi