

đź’¦ Mailbag "Last couple months she has a urine smell to her ejaculate."
Q: Susan,
"I first saw you on Mark Bell's Power Project podcast on YouTube. I'm the kind of guy who goes back to verify everything I hear, and so far you look to be spot on. I'm now a big fan.
I learned how to make my wife squirt a few years ago and now regardless of what type orgasm she has, she's not finished until she squirts (which I am very pleased with).
However, I've noticed that in the last couple of months there is a urine smell to her ejaculate. This has never been the case and like I said, only recently has changed.
She's somewhat sexually shy and won't talk about sexual likes, dislikes, wants etc... with that in mind, how the hell do I break the ice on this topic?
She's a very particular woman when it comes to hygiene and I'm concerned that if this issue not handled correctly, could hurt her emotionally as well as sexually. We're in our mid 50's if that matters.
Thoughts??"
A: Hi,
My guess is that the muscle that closes off the urine from the bladder when she ejaculates is getting a little weak with older age. A guy goes to the bathroom and ejaculates through his urethral tube and so does a woman. The body knows when you’re ejaculating vs when you’re urinating. However, our soft tissues, joints and ligaments begin to atrophy as we age. Probably when she’s releasing her ejaculate, a tiny bit of urine gets into the urethra.
There are treatments and tools which reverse the aging clock on that muscle system. All of these recommendations below will not only reverse incontinence (urge and stress types) she’s having now, it will assuage future incontinence. In addition, these treatments and tools will improve her pelvic musculature, increase the intensity of her orgasms (as the sensation also begins to recede as we age), improve her vaginal lubrication and the thickness of her vaginal, labial and clitoral tissue.
I’d suggest the three following regenerative therapies for shoring up the bladder “valve” so she doesn’t leak when she ejaculates:
#1 FemiWave treatments.
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Since that tissue is at the junction where the bladder joins the urethra, your single best regenerative treatment is FemiWave, which is administered from outside the body in the abdominal area right where the bladder and urethra are located. There is nothing more direct than the acoustic wave stimulating new tissue growth at the exact location. It also helps all the other issues mentioned above.
All other companies’ treatments like C02 lasers and RF wands go up inside the vagina and damage the vaginal mucosal lining to thicken it. I find these other treatments HURT LIKE HECK and they are not targeted like the FemiWave to the bladder as well as to the pelvic bowl to shore up the lower pelvic muscles. FemiWave makes noise and you can feel sensation but it is not burning the vaginal tissue with a CO2 laser or wounding the tissue like RF treatment. It doesn’t hurt, but there is healing time afterward to regrow new tissue.
While you’re at the regenerative center, get yourself some GAINSWave treatments to stimulate new tissue growth in your penis and reverse your own 50 year old atrophy.
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This tool is a godsend. It restores lubrication, improves vaginal laxity, tone and grip. It helps with incontinence, and it helps with the vaginal microbiome. It’s not as powerful a treatment as FemiWave. But for lighter cases of incontinence, it can help. The nice thing is you can do it at home and it’s a low cost item you can use for years.
I demonstrate it here below on my Only Fans social media site.
The VFit Gold is a really nice feeling tool.
#3 PRP Injections.
https://betterlover.com/i-had-6-orgasm-shots-to-my-clitoris/
I wouldn’t recommend these O Shots as a stand alone fix for your wife’s likely issue. (Again it’s just an educated guess from an anatomy nerd who ejaculates as well.) But PRP which comes from your body’s own healing and growth factors is a complementary modality to a series of FemiWave treatments. You can find a practitioner who does both. They go hand-in-hand. The PRP injected into the roof of the vagina, up into the urethreal sponge, especially after a series of FemiWave treatments is going to accelerate the healing and new tissue growth that comes from the acoustic wave treatments. They also inject it into the clitoral tissue, which improves orgasmic sensation immensely. Between the PRP in the urethral area (G-Spot) and clitoris, she’s is going to have mind blowing orgasms and squirting sessions.
If you think I nailed it, let me know. If you think it might be something else, fill me in.
I’d research FemiWave locations, check out the cost and if you can afford the investment in your sex life, just explain to her what’s happening and offer to take her for treatments. No need to be shy about it. You two have hot sex, you’re getting old, and there’s some light maintenance that is extremely common that needs to be done so she can relax and squirt her heart out.
Thanks for entrusting me.
Love,
Susan