*When was the last time you allowed yourself to really have ..
Added 2022-12-07 03:06:04 +0000 UTC*When was the last time you allowed yourself to really have FUN during a sexual experience?*
either in self-pleasure or with a partner?
It’s heartbreaking that our society pressures and conditions us to limit our pleasure out of fear, shame and guilt 💔
we tend to close ourselves off from aliveness and pleasure when we circle in our heads and try to figure out every step of the way or judge every single thing we do 🤯
Nothing describes this more clearly than how we relate to our sexuality👇🏼
Trying to control how your body looks to your lover
Leaving the lights off because you’re ashamed of your body
Shaming and disowning your desires.
Carefully monitoring your performance
Rushing to get to the goal of orgasm
Making yourself wrong if you orgasm too quickly or if you take “too long”
Opening your sexuality DIRECTLY correlates to the way you experience life.
**All of life is relationship**…and your other relationships (to people, food, money, etc.) WILL be veryyy similar to how you engage with your sexuality
*How are you bringing the fun to sex and self pleasure this week my love?* 🌹
👇🏼 COMMENT below 👇🏼
@kaiaandleo
