i’ve been on quite the journey with alchemizing body shame, ..

i’ve been on quite the journey with alchemizing body shame, desire shame and sexuality shame into deep REVERENCE and acceptance….and ultimately, allowing my body to be an altar for the divine, a sacred messenger and compass of desire…my sexpression amplifies my power, prayer, passion and purpose 🔥❤️‍🔥

i know from experience the pain of feeling contracted, wanting to hide, not sharing my desires because I was afraid of feeling the sensations of “rejection”…or needing the lights to be off to make love.

but the truth is, that’s not making love. it’s feeding fear. 🤮

Here are a two tips that have helped me to release my inhibitions during intimacy and bring more fun into my sexuality…and hence, expand my pleasure a LOT!

1. Shift your attention from worrying about how your body looks and instead focus on FEELING your body. attune to sensation. delight in the textures. smell the skin. breathe deeply into the parts of yourself that want to close or shut down. become present, fully allowing yourself to receive the present moment.

2. Seduce your shadows. 🌚
AKA, accept, own and explore the kinks, fantasies and desires you have rejected and disowned. Have a conversation with your lover about what you’re desiring to explore, and drop your needs to be met. it’s a practice in taking risks and being vulnerable…exposing more of you, for the sake of feeling expressed. if your lover is willing to fulfill your desire and support it’s manifestation (or maybe it’s their desire too!)..wonderful! Dialogue about boundaries and move with consent. let your imagination run wild in a way that feels juicy and exciting.

*Are you ready to integrate your kinky shadows and live with more pleasure?*

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@kaiaandleo