***To the previous post...*** often have certain sexual fan..

***To the previous post...*** often have certain sexual fantasies with different peo-ple. I don't have to see them naked at all 🌈💖 It's nice that such fantasies stay only with me, these people will never know about it 😅 Do I like it if I excite someone with my looks? Definitely yes🥺 ***(I'm not sure how clearly I wrote because English is not my first language😅 )*** ⬇️⬇️⬇️ *How do you be in a relationship with one person when you have fantasies about others?* **FANTASIES DO NOT EQUAL ACTION💖** I was in an open relationship once. My partner had many girls, I was fine with that, we talked it over. He also asked me to find other lovers so I wouldn't be bored when we weren't together. And all cool if it turned out to be possible for me. In the end I didn't find anyone. When I like someone I can't sleep with others. To get laid in life I usually have to be friends with the person, fall in love with them, genuinely admire them, have similar values. It is very important to me to establish communication. Although there are exceptions when it is a one-night stand and everyone understands that. I haven't had that in a long time. For example in our relationship we have an agreement not to cheat, and if suddenly there are such thoughts, then immediately discuss it with your partner. There was a time when I really liked a boy and couldn't find my place, I discussed it with my partner and it made me feel better. Afterwards I decided not to have sexual relations with that man because we have different lives. Sometimes fantasies are better to remain fantasies. But thanks to constant discussion with my partner, I feel comfortable going out with other boys and girls and my partner is positive about it. There is no jealousy, mistrust. The first person I tell will be him because we are friends. What to do if your partner has fallen in love with another person? Condemn and if it is his final decision, you have to let go. But for me personally, sexual fantasies about other people are not a barrier to a monogamous long-term relationship. If you get very excited, you can get it out in sex with your partner.