**Ask a Dom** Your questions answered by my Daddy and Mr V...

**Ask a Dom**
Your questions answered by my Daddy and Mr V.
I'm going to split the questions into four sections as I ended up with quite a few. The sections will be 'play', 'training', 'dynamics' and 'Dom/sub relationships.

Thank you for sending me the questions, I hope you find the answers interesting!

(SD = Sophia's Daddy / MV = Mr V)

**Play**
**How/when did you become kinky?**
SD - I only properly got into kink after I met Sophia which was over a decade ago! My relationships before had some element of kink but having a partner who is extremely open about sex and can communicate what they want/need really opened the world of kink. Having someone you trust and feel safe with is great for exploring kinks and identifying those you didn't even know you had.

MV - I became interested in kink almost by accident. I knew I enjoyed sex but there was an element missing for me. During sex if I was physically dominant I found the other person's reaction a turn on. I then started to read about what power play was and quickly realised that this was the part of being dominant that turned me on. From there I explored various kinks including BDSM and recognised that consensual power exchange was my primary kink.

**What are your main kinks?**
SD - I love degradation and humiliation play. I am extremely verbal and really enjoy degrading subs and putting them in degrading scenarios.

I also love objectification so treating Sophia as a toy is one of my favourite things to do. We have also explored service subbing where Sophia waits on me and other couples whilst we enjoy our evening.

Being in a normal scenario where Sophia is exposed and ignored and then ultimately used is a massive turn on for me.

MV - My primary kink is consensual power exchange. Within that there are two strands and I am turned on more by the reaction, rather than the act itself.

I love humiliation and degrading. I love physical acts that are humiliating for the sub this ranges from objectification through to spit and other messy play.

The other part to my kink is BDSM. Again, having a sub give themself to you, to restrain and use. I enjoy predicament bondage and then humiliation through impact play, denial, face restraints etc.

In all these acts, it’s seeing the sub choosing to comply and do something they otherwise wouldn't. Alternatively seeing the moments before and after an act, rather than the act itself is a huge turn on.

**What are your limits?**
SD - Most of the things that are against the OF TOS that I can’t mention here! My limits have moved over time but I don't enjoy anything that rough. I don't like any form of breath play even if it's light touch. I'm much more interested in the mental side of kink.

**Is there a scenario you would love but haven't had the opportunity to make reality?**
SD - I would love for Sophia to serve at a sex party and then when everyone starts to play she is taken off into a room where the guests can go in and use her over and over. In my mind they go in to see her to do the depraved and dirty things their normal partners won't let them do so I can degrade her afterwards!

I also haven't had the change to Dom two women at once yet which would be a lot of fun.

**Do you get Dom drop? What’s your aftercare routine?**
SD - Yes massively, Dom drop is real! Randomly I always get a blocked nose after a heavy session. The best way to recover from dirty sex is dirty food, a good movie and cuddles!

MV - I get Dom drop, for me it feels like an inability to concentrate/ focus and I go quiet. I need to normalize pretty quickly with my partners

Part II coming soon...