I am not perfect. Never claimed to be nor am I trying to be...

I am not perfect. Never claimed to be nor am I trying to be. When I started here on onlyfans I worked constantly. When I wasn’t at my other job or taking care of my family and pets, I was making content, answering messages, working on customs and rates, and promotion. My life work balance was all out of whack. I was throwing myself into my work partly as a distraction from a break up, the pandemic, and the stress of having to put myself in danger as an essential work. Over the holidays I decided I really needed to stop and take some time for myself otherwise I was going to completely burn out. I needed to restore work/life balance.

In addition to all of that I also had a super scary “fan” I was dealing with and felt a real threat to my safety which made me consider walking away from everything I built. He continues to pop
up, but I’m not about letting bullies win.

I bare a lot here. I put it all out there. I do it because I enjoy it and also it is another way to support myself and my family. It is hard work but I love getting to know you all and making great content for you all.

I realize part of me restoring more balance in my life translates to being a less than perfect creator, but that is necessary to do or else I will completely burn out and be unable to continue this work. All of that said, if I don’t respond right away to a message please show me some grace. I’ve worked hard to get to a place where I show myself the grace I deserve, and I expect the same from others. I apologize if I miss a message here or there or my responses are short, I promise you it’s not about you and I am doing my very best.

I am constantly thinking of how I can do my job here better. How I can improve my content. The amount of mental energy that goes into this work is incredible. But I love it because it is challenging me in so many ways. I appreciate and welcome your suggestions and ideas for content.

Thank you to those who have extended your grace. I am fortunate to have you here and your compliments and kind words are the icing on the cake and are what motivates me to strive even harder to keep making really great content. 😘

Last day for spin the wheel BTW!! Please let me know if I missed anyone’s spins. I think I was caught up as of yesterday so if you tipped today, I’ll get to yours shortly